This guy I've been talking to for a few weeks texted me "text me if you want to hang out sometime." Why didn't he just ask me specifically? I don't want to be the one making the plans and putting in all the effort! He seemed really into me in our other exchanges but then he puts all this pressure on me. Is there something I can do or say back to get him to propose real plans?
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It's his way of making sure you're interested. As opposed to asking you out then feeling like a fool because you don't like him in the same way.
But to your question. Why don't you text or call and say.
I'm available ______ night. What about you? Let me know. And we can figure something out.
Then he knows you're interested. The pressure is lifted off of you. Win. Win.1