And then expects a second date?
Before we went out he said he knew this good restaurant that we could go to. I don't know if that was supposed to be a joke but I don't think it was funny.
Just why? Out of all the places you could choose, why would you choose hooters to take a girl to?
I thought it was extremley disrespectful
And I thought I made that quite clear actually. When we were there I told him I didn't want a main course just snacks, obviously so I could leave sooner. I didn't let him walk me home or called him after. But apparently it was too subtle because three days later he texted me asking for a second date. Really? What would make him think I'd go out with him again?
First date and he takes me to hooters?
And then expects a second date?
What Guys Said 17
if you tell him, you feel like being defensive but you're not.
if i were you, don't hide that you're upset. he needs to know. you can tell him to forget about the 2nd date, or however up to you. hooters is not about the food, it is about the girls..it is a franchise that is promoting itself based on that. and yes, it was a stupid decision... i really feel like talking some sense into him.2
I'm not supporting his decision, and I have never been to hooters, though I would go given the opportunity. If this was a better date and you guys kept going out for a month and you really liked him, how would you act/react if he brought you there just for the food or just to be in a fun relaxed place?0
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I agree with bouncing pig if it was a bad date then don't see him again. but I agree if hooters is his idea of a nice place for dinner don't call him again. But to be fair just assume this first date was a fluke that it will never happen again like this and go on a second date with him0
seems like a tool2
He isn't very smart3
What a dumbo.1
And all of this is fine, but are you only not responding to him cause you wnet to Hooters? Or was he a bad date? You may have been too irritated to be able to catch that he was joking around? Just looking at both sides.0
What? They have good wings! lol
No but seriously, I agree with you. That's no place for a first date.2
Yeah I would never go on a first date to hooters. Hooters is a place where I go with the bros... bubbiexo is wrong its not a shithole just because they have hot girls working doesn't make it a shithole lol. Someones jelly.0
What Girls Said 14
Some guys are totally clueless... That's all there is to it. It's super rude and inconsiderate to take you there... And the food isn't even good so wtf?
Okay so I've heard of guys testing gals before to see how cool they are and shit like that. I think that maybe he was trying to see if you were "down-to-earth" enough to go to a shit hole like that. So then he liked how you didn't throw a fit and wants to see you again? Guy logic. He could have taken you to a dive bar where people are fully clothed and the food is better for the same effect.
What an idiot! Lose his number!!6
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Wow I'm really sorry that happened to you. I really don't know enough to assume if it was a joke or not, but his game is more than a tad bit off, and I agree that was EXTREMELY disrespectful. The fact that you didn't let him walk you home, or hadn't called him should've immediately told him it was off, but he texted you. Obviously you felt hurt from this, and again, I apologize. I really don't know why that'd make him think otherwise though. But I think you should tell him straight up, and how you feel about the whole situation.2
I find this a "Rootin tootin" First date Bomb, sweetie, and I do believe, you should of grew some of your own Big Boobs and told him-----"No way, Jose." There are small cafes and bistros for "snacks and such," and apparently One of you was served a "main course" after all...
As far as "seconds" go, he must really have been impressed with You More than the hotties, for it appears he didn't give a "hoot" about what was on The menu that nite..."Was this for your eyes only?"
It's your choice for his Bad taste in "Eats and sweets," but if you Do decide to give him another taste test, You tell him Next Round what you're "Into" for your Own food for thought.xx0
Well I don't know what's worse. That guy taking you out to Hooters on your first date... or my boyfriend taking me out to the movies to see Lars Von Trier's "Antichrist" on your second date.3
Because he seems himself as gods gift to women...
How could you ever resist him?3
Well it could be a few things maybe
1) he is so clueless is laughable but if u really like him explain it to him like he's from a different planet not assuming he knows how ridiculous it was he took you there
2) maybe he was really low on cash and the only person he knew that worked at a restaurant happened to work there and could give him a discount?
3) maybe you're extremely hot and he was showing you off to an ex gf
There's many variables but if I were you I'd straight up ask him. Have you taken dates to hooters before? That will open up the conversation at least and then you'll know if you want to give him a second shot. You never know, a screw up like this could pay off big for you in terms of the second date ha!!
Goid luck honey!1
Lol I sorry but I had to laugh at the question. It was funny. But I totally agree, I wouldn't want to go to Hooters for a first date at all, unless it was talked about before hand and you were ok with it then it wouldn't have been a problem but for him to pick the place and show up at Hooters? I wouldn't be so impressed. If you still like him you could always bring it up and say it was a little distasteful and go from there0
I cannot really see what's wrong with taking you to hooters, not every guy has the money for a 5 star restaurant. You acted childish and if you don't want a second date then man up and tell him so.1
Loser, cut bait, omg what a jerk lol0
maybe he thought you'd enjoy it0
LOL whattt!! Just text him back saying the first date was a fail and it's over.0
I don't see this has a big deal2
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