I met this guy, we communicated (every day) via text and phone calls for about a week or 2.
He asked me on a datel and I said yes. We hit it off and spent about 5 hours together that day.
It's really hard for me to stay interested in a guy but this guy just won me over...
We continued communicating every single day. We went on 2 more dates the next 2 weeks. 3rd date we had wine and went to his place. He kissed me. (The best I've ever had).
It was absolutely amazing. I just felt so deeply as we kissed. Then he said he loved me. He was embarrassed about it (so cute haha) but he said it again later. We weren't going to have sex and he knew that.
He isn't the most attractive guy but he just swept me off my feet. I didn't return the "I love you" because I thought it was just the moment. I did say "while we kissed, I felt like saying that, too."
The next day in the middle of our convo I said "im not really looking for a thing right now." (I got out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months prior to meeting him so i thought it would be fair to jump right into something new so soon).
He went COLD after that. I didn't nknow why until I asked what I did wrong.
He responded "if you're not looking towards a relationship, why should I treat you like a girlfriend."
It's been nearly 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him.
What did I do that was terrible because I'm not seeing it? Also, I'm not sure if there is something I'm miasing because I was so into him,
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You didn't return his I love you? Why not? He came out of his shell, overcame his shyness, and his fear to tell you that he loved you- and you couldn't say it back to him? Even after you now say he swept you off of your feet?
And you wonder why he's now saying he doesn't want to treat you like you are his girlfriend?1
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