Are you one of those people that have a hard time expressing themselves to someone you like? Maybe because you're afraid of rejection or just don't know how. Do you go over and over your head about the outcome of the situation if you do a certain thing. Are you serious and reserved but tries to connect with someone? Is your mind full of what if's and analyzing everything like a scenario? How does this affect your love life if you're like that?
We should expect nothing
If we receive good things, it'll surprise us and we'll value it more.
If we receive bad things, it'll not affect us as much and we'll go on.
Don't let fear rule you
Fear is nothing unless you create it
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Absolutely. I'm both afraid of rejection and unsure of how to present myself. All day when i know i will be seeing/speaking with my crush I go over little scenarios in my head, and when it comes to actually saying that witty line i actually just smile and blush, or worse, pretend i don't see him at all. Then the rest of the day i'm depressed because i blew it again.
As for my love life, it's nonexistent. Literally. I'm almost nineteen and i've never held freaking hands with a boy, let alone anything else. I was a cheerleader and everyone tells me how sweet i am, and i'm smart too. But i'm so gosh darn terrified of sharing my feelings that i am friend zoned-actually, sister zoned, or forgotten. Like, right now i die over these scenarios in my head, thinking about this guy while i'm in the car, or while i am in class because i'll be seeing him soon (both in community college) and i'm watching that chemistry we had fade because i didn't know how to show it. He used to meet me after class but i got so nervous i stopped meeting him for a month, and i could tell that i'd sabotaged some of that natural chemistry.0