I was talking to this guy for about 3 weeks. We talked everyday and we both got along great. Lots of common interests and just great conversations. This past week we went to a concert, had an amazing time and couldn't have had a better time.
Well, he mentioned his ex and him still snap chat. it usually wouldn't bother me, but before we started talking, they were friends with benefits. When we started talking, he said he ended things with her completely. So I felt like this wasn't the truth. So I went in to self protective mode and wanted to know if there were other girls and that kind of thing. I just got made because it all seemed fishy.
He said he's tired of being with girls who question that stuff. I said it only bothers me because it was a friends with benefits. They are worse than straight relationship exs.
He got mad and said it's better we just be friends. Within 12 hours after a great night, he won't even speak to me. I've tried texting him, telling him I'm sorry, I didn't mean to jump to conclusions, but I also don't want to get hurt. I sent about 3 texts and called once over 24 hours. And nothing. Still nothing a day later.
Was I wrong to question what he was doing?
Is this really something that would push a guy away?
I miss him and didn't mean for it to turn out like this. I got caught up in self protection mode. :(
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It's not you at all
those questions are nothing to a straight up guy wanting to be closer to a gal - he was giving you the tip of an iceberg and identified immediately that his BS was not going to pass muster with any of your questions.
In fact, if he thought sex was in the air that night, he saw that breeze changed direction and blew off the date... and any repeats.
He may cool off but sending comms only fan his flames0