Went and got coffee with this woman and we exchanged contact information, after which we bumped into each other a few times and talked a bit. I told her we should meet up when she's back from a business trip. She said we'll arrange something, then called me asking if I wanted to meet up for drinks. I agreed, and it seemed to go well but she wasn't initiating any touch, even though I was which she was okay with. She made a comment about how the first kiss is the basis of the relationship but I felt that really forced the kiss (kind of like a guy asking if he can get a good night kiss - pretty much kills the vibe) so I called her out on it saying she'll have to wait and see.
We bumped into each other again a week later, and she was open to touch again (small of back, stomach, legs, etc.) but wasn't really initiating it, but she seemed to be having a good time and wanted to hang out for longer which made our hangout take up the better half of a day. At the end though she didn't attempt to even hug me (same with the first date and the coffee meet up) when she was leaving, so I took the initiative and hugged her and gave her a couple of pecks on the cheek.
Saw her again a few days later, and she was still hovering around me, leaving her co-worker to talk to me, but when I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink, she told me she was busy that week, so I said okay we can try again next week. I ended up being pretty busy and not seeing her for a week and a half at which point she would still hover around me but she was a bit more distant but she would still hover around me and initiate conversation. I shot her a text the next day and she replied a couple of days later telling me how sorry she was for replying so late and she's been busy and will be busy for a while but would like a rain check.
Ladies, should I assume she's losing interest given that she's blown me off twice?
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