So I keep having these same experiences with guys where we're talking and everything seems to be going well, they even mention meeting up and then they just stop replying. I have no idea why.
Recently I started talking to someone and he asked me to email him instead of talking through the dating site. My last email to him was Saturday morning and then I didn't hear from him. So on Monday I decided to send him a last email apologising if I'd offended him and wishing him luck in his search. He then responded saying he fully intended on replying to me and meeting up but he'd been busy with a friend.
Fair enough. The problem is he's logged onto the dating site multiple times since I sent the email on Saturday and I'm not sure what to think. If he hasn't had time to email me and is so keen to meet up, why has he kept on logging in to the site? And why didn't he tell me he was busy and was going to take a while to reply if he wanted to keep my interest? Is this normal to just expect a girl to keep hanging on? I thought guys would want to let a girl know he's still interested in case she starts talking to someone else?
So I'm confused here. Do I give him the benefit of the doubt and wait for his reply or do I take this as him stringing me along and let it go? I have a hard time trusting people because I've been messed around so much and to me it doesn't seem right that you'd wait days to reply to someone's email but still be logging into the dating site regularly...the only thing he can be doing is looking at other women's profiles, talking to other women and reading his messages all of which seem counter productive if it's me he's interested in and if he's so busy, how does he have time to browse a dating site but not talk to someone he supposedly wants to meet? Do men take these situations differently? I really don't know what to think...
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Well I don't like email throw dating sites so I an understand the direct email part. I know dating sites flood/overwhelm me with emails and notices that sometimes I go read them others I don't bother because it get so annoying, now I can't say that is what he is doing so its really up to how you feel
Personally to me it sounds like he has just lost the interest in you for what ever reason.
Modern society teaches girls to be more independent and men to be more of a player , its a cause and effect type situation nothing you can do about that but find something you can make work out0
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