Which one would you prefer?
Girls who at confident and know what they want or a girl who is a "yes" girl and will do what you want?
All the guys I date seem to only want a girl who will go along with what they say.
I don't want to be controlled. But lately I feel like I push guys away because they can't have their cake and eat it to.
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The answer is: Do either or. Either be super-submissive and needy and do everything he wants (literally) or be super-controlling dominant and agressive and make him do everything you want.
But if you only give mixed signals, back off at every approach and never show any affection but only uncertainty and indecisiveness and the "might call the cops if I touch her too much" kind of look, etc. that's totally offputting!0