I know the disappearing act is common but this one has definitely hit me harder than most. I met a guy on tinder and we dated for about a month and a half. He texted me every single day and we went on 6 or 7 dates. Last weekend I met one of his close friends for the first time. After then all of a sudden he stopped texting me. He did text and say he was glad I came out the day after but now It's been 4 days and I haven't heard anything at all. And occasionally since then when I get on tinder I see he's been "active" so I know he didn't "lose" his phone. Why do you think he's disappeared?
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I could be wrong but:
- A lot of time when guys disappear its because of another girl. His time is now spent texting/calling her.
- I doubt he stopped texting you for absolutely no reason. Do u remember the last couple of convos u had with him? Maybe he dropped a few hints in there. I.E: I had a guy who started off really nonchalantly bringing up me being busy a lot. I brushed it off every time but it was a major issue for him (unbeknownst to me)
- in my opinion...4 days is too soon to conclude he's "disappeared". He could be busy or just need some space
-If the disappearing act becomes longer OR it becomes a repeated thing...I'd seriously forget this guy like amnesia & move on.0