I've been dating this man for about 2 months now. We have met a few times. What concerns me is that he will communicate only 2-3 times in a week over a short chat or sometimes a phone call. We haven't discussed exclusivity yet. Is it too early to discuss such a thing? Could his not so often communication mean that's he just not into me, is dating other women or possibly he's intimidated by me?
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It could mean any of those things, but it could also mean he's busy with work, that he's tired at the end of the day and just wants to relax sometimes, or that he is stressed out about something that has nothing to do with you (money, his job, his family, health, etc. etc.). Maybe he just isn't a strong communicator, or maybe he's used to the girl initiating communications. You have far too little information to draw any conclusions here.
The RIGHT answer is to communicate this issue with him, and ask him if there's a reason you haven't been talking as much. Get the issue out in the open, and you take away its power to divide you. Either he'll tell you he's not that into you, and you can dump him and move on, or he'll give you a reason that will probably make sense, and perhaps he'll make more of an effort.
Relationships are nothing without the partners being able to communicate about ISSUES and PROBLEMS between themselves. If you can't or won't do that (and/or if he can't or won't), then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.0