We've been dating for about three months and gone away three weekends (most recently over Easter ). My Mom casually said she wanted to meet him, and I thought that was quite the compliment. So I told him and he completely freaked out.
I definitely thought he liked me a lot before this happened yesterday. And I haven't heard from him since. Why did he freak out (over something I didn't think was a big deal)?
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meeting a girls/boys family for the first time is scary for most people. Maybe in his mind he thinking that means you guys are in a serious and committed relationship when really he looks at your relationship as a casual relationship. He may not be ready to be committed to just one person. Maybe he had a bad past experience with meeting one of his ex girlfriends parents or maybe he felt that you should have talked to him about this before you just assumed it was a good thing to do. We can't guess what other people are thinking so just ask him why he is making a big deal out of it and see what he says. I recommend that you just listen and then maybe not respond right away because sometimes in a situation like this its easy for us to say the wrong thing. Good luck!2