I am wondering if It would be a bad idea for me to go alone to a club. There's someone playing and my friend bailed out on me on the last minute. I love the celebrity that's playing and it's my birthday but I'm worried about going alone. And I'm also super socially awkward and I don't want to look like a pathetic loser. I just figured there would be a lot of people there so I could blend in with the crowd. I would have to take a taxi home. I don't have a phone atm so I would have to bring my boyfriends if he even let's me. We have a kid so I kind of can't bring my boyfriend with me. And finding a babysitter is pricey and almost impossible.
It's Your Big day in a Huge way, however, going to This Club Pub may Get you More Attention than you would care to have as part of your own Gala, even With... Blend in with the crowd. I'm not trying to be too personal as to Ask where is this 'Boyfriend' on your Special day today? With Other guys with eyes at the bash and band 'Last minute,' if you should go Anyways, you will find that you are Not Alone of course but also Find that Many will be hitting and spitting and wanting to join in on your Slap Happy parade. Perhaps you could Continue to find a friend who would love to share and care tonite. Good luck and Happy Birthday. xxoo
It's pretty dangerous to go out alone to a club as a woman. Predators notice a girl who has no one to look out for her. I know as a feminine presenting guy I'd never risk it. Maybe you could buy some nice drinks and have a night in with your boyfriend? Then go out for a repeat birthday when others are available.
Ugh, my inner woman is dying to have to say no on this one, but clubs have their issues which we all know, and its just a good idea to go with at least one other person. It's your friggin' birthday (Happy Birthday btw:), I hate to be like, where are your friends at, but come on, there has to be someone willing to get turnt up with you on your special day?
Like a big dance nightclub? You should sit near the bartender, so you can see the drink being poured in front of you. Obviously don't accept drinks. It would be more fun to have a friend, but as for safety levels it requires common sense. Don't get drunk, don't accept drinks, make sure you're in a good spot where its bright and people can spot you if you get in trouble. There may be security guards there, and there will be surveillance cameras. Overall, is it actually worth it?