Every time I tell someone, especially girls they give me the "omg I bet you burn down churches too" look. Why can't I find any girls into metal?
Most Helpful Girl
my boyfriend and i are both metalheads~ we like different types of metal, but he's the only one i've ever dated who has the same taste in music as me (and i was 27 when i met him).
there are lots of metal-loving ladies out there; good luck finding one!1
Most Helpful Guy
Judging by your profile pic, I don't think it's the aesthetics scaring women away, as you don't look anything like a stereotypical metalhead. But in response to your question, I think a lot of women see metal and its fans as rather seedy. Guys with long hair, beards, and dark clothes are seen as scruffy or undesirable by many, and women may steer clear of them because of that.
They also tend to like the music less, and even if you find a girl that's a "metalhead", they're even more likely to be poser than a guy who says the same. The few girls I've met who claim to like metal usually mean nu-metal, core, or corporate buttrock, which is as far from metal as you can get. The ones that do listen to actual metal usually only listen to the hits of the most well-known bands (Maiden, Priest, the big four, etc.) and have terrible taste in gear if they play an instrument themselves. I have yet to meet any chicks I'd actually consider metal, so you're not alone in that.
They'll happily get boozed up and shake their asses to the newest linear pop sing with 4/4 time and the same annoying beat throughout, but would call a band like Demolition Hammer or Morbid Saint "noise" or "talentless". It sucks.0