Use your imagination, Put yourself in this situation.
Imagine you you worked at a restaurant and this particular black guy kept coming in to eat. You must've seen him like 4 or 5 times at least! Then one day he pops up and before he leaves he writes you a small note and gives it to you... The note says...👇🏽 But your not really interested so you never call...😌
Would you say somthing if you saw that guy again the next day? Would you avoid all contact like eye contact and verbal contact? Would you feel bad and maybe say Somthin to the guy? Would you probably have a change of heart and give him your number? Or would you just hope to never see him again?
Im asking because this situation applies to me and... I'm not sure if I should speak again or just keep my distance completely?
(When I say "keep my distance completely" I mean like... Should I just never go to that restaurant again)
I would avoid eye contact and verbal contact
I would feel bad & maybe say Somthin to the guy (I have a boyfriend)
🤔If he looks nice I might change my mind and give him my number
I would just hope I don't have to see or speak to him again😁
And you are? I'm a GirlGuys can not vote on this poll
2mo This is unfortunate because I really fuckin like this girl but I don't wanna be in the creeper stalker zone so whenever I go I just don't make eye contact and I stay away from the register unless I'm ordering food, if ANYONE! Of you wonderful ladies has any advice or schemes or grand plans to help me turn this situation around, 😦 I'd be forever greatful! I really like this girl and I don't wanna lose this battle but if I have to give up in order to save face then so be it... Fuck!🙊
If she never called you then that's like your answer right there. You don't want to come across as a stalker or creep, so no more notes or anything. I don't think u have to stop going to the restaurant completely though, unless you feel a little uncomfortable going back. I think you should've spoke to her face to face instead of a note. If I was her that's what I would've preferred or you should've tried light conversations here & there with her first before the note.
First off I think the note was incredibly sweet and not creepy. It was probably the only way you could communicate with her without interrupting her work. There could be a ton of reasons why she didn't call. Maybe she's not single, maybe she's not interested, maybe she just got out of a relationship, maybe she's shy, maybe she just forgot, maybe she's busy, maybe she lost the note, maybe she didn't find you attractive, maybe she's aromantic, maybe she's a lesbian, or some other reason. There are an infinite amount of reasons why she didn't call. I think you should go back to the restaraunt because if you change your schedule because of her it's gonna look like you were only there to stalk her in the first place. If you genuinely go there for the food, then I think you should go back. Besides, you never know, she might say something to you in person while you're there.