Drawing accurate depictions of someone whilst they are naked and unaware is creepy. It's an abuse of trust. If those drawings could prove beyond reasonable doubt that you must have seen her naked to be able to draw them then they might as well be photos. I think that it's wrong and a little disturbing.
The fact that you mention having deniability speaks volumes already. You pretty much know that this is shady.
I haven't seen her naked though. I haven't even seen her underwear yet- haven't even done anything more intimate than hold her hand for a few seconds. I've merely imagined them, using her figure as a base template. Is imagination a crime? Is drawing a sketch of my sexual fantasies of what I imagine someone's naked form might look like, in my idealized mind's eye, really a violation of that person's trust? And if so, how is it any more of a crime than merely visualizing them in my head, as so many others do, without putting pencil to paper?
Okay, apologies, it wasn't clear to me that you hadn't seen her naked, hence these drawings are fiction and are only photo realistic as far as the face and the approximate figure. They don't show any particular features of her naked body. In that case, it's less disturbing. However, she might not view it in the same way, she may well be creeped out. It is not too dissimilar to taking a photo of her head and putting it onto the body of a naked woman. Who knows, she may be flattered but then she might really not be flattered. I would say that you make damn sure that the pictures are never seen by anyone, then at least you have some kind of integrity.
I drew a semi nude sketch of my girlfriend (before she was my gf) and showed it to her and hinted the resemblance. she kinda liked it, i mean she's my girlfriend now and although I haven't asked her how she felt at the time but I am just saying by observing her response. Anyway, I'll ask her tomorrow she's asleep now.
Had it been just what you posted minus the buttcrack, it would be flattering - you're super talented and that drawing is gorgeous. But the fact that you've only been on 2 dates and you're already drawing her nude in "slutty poses" and with you in them kissing her and now thinking about drawing you two having sex, that's creepy and a huge red flag.
Well, most of them are just half-done, outlines only. So I could easily discard the unfinished drafts and dial it back a notch. And yes, I admit that I'm thinking about drawing me and her having sex. Why? Because I've started thinking that it'd be nice if I could have sex with her (something which most guys will start thinking about a gorgeous girl after the first couple of dates with her), and because imaginary scenes are easier to draw the more vivid, intense and sensual they are. Is it creepy that I've started looking at her, not just as being sexy in her own right, but as someone I can fantasize about having sex with myself?
And what course of action do you feel that I should take? Show them to her (some day, obviously not yet), change the face details so that it's not recognizably her, keep them to myself and store them away, or destroy them all and not draw any more without asking her to be my subject first?
I think its dope and sweet in a way, that's a cool talent first off and I would be flattered. I think you should start off showing the more innocent ones your relationship progresses. Otherwise do the selling thing
It's creepy, especially if you only went on a couple of dates with her. But your drawing is nice. Just try to focus it somewhere else maybe
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I'd be flattered.
it would be fine with me if I was older and if they had my consent. I would need to know what poses too.
This is a weird grey area, since taking a picture of your date naked is illegal and immoral, but drawing a semi-accurate depiction instead is fine and dandy. Eh?
Do you draw them from just your imagination and memory or from pictures as well? If they're too real, don't sell without permission. Very nice work. No one has ever drawn me yet, it would be nice.
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That is an awesome illustration.
Flattered if he drew it nicely, since I draw stuff too. He'd probably have to model for me too xD
If it gets more serious, I would show them to her but since it's just the first date, I would probably not tell her yet. Don't sell them, but you could keep them if things go south.
You better draw me one day 😋😂
I think flattering would be how I'd feel. This varies on how good they are at drawing though, as bad as that sounds. If they stink at drawing and try to draw you naked, you'd look like shit, so I'd probably say "thank you!" and be flattered they cared but definitely not be overjoyed at all because the image sucked. If they were a good drawer, I'd say "WOW! You drew that? Thank you!" and I'd be flattered they cared and overjoyed becasue it came out really good
I think for me personally I wouldn't care as long as they weren't very suggestive. I very much enjoy art. However, I'd hope he keep them private.
I'm from a super small country so if anyone found those they'd know its me. I wouldn't mind being the inspiration, but I would appreciate if I'm made unrecoznizeable.
I would be flattered
Kinda flattered, I guess.
I have been sketched nude.
I've been sketched.
I would like it, but I wouldn't like if the sketches where shown to the public
I would feel violated and disturbed if you didn't ask for permission and put my face on a naked body. Surely you can see why this might be creepy?
That said, you're pretty talented. I actually like that drawing quite a bit
Is her butt really that low on her body?
Well, it could be if she were tall enough. And if you look closely, she's actually wearing a thong, so that makes her butt look just a teensy bit lower than it actually is. But TBH, that was my biggest gripe about the drawing too. Couldn't do anything about it though, not when I'd used colored pencil for that part; had to just work around it.
Well, it's still really good. Did you just use colored pencils? Anyway, I don't think I'd feel comfortable with drawings that show more than this though. Especially not ones that show sexual behavior, because girls want to be seen as more than just sex objects.
Wow that's creepy!
Girls may say it's OK, but if it actually happened to them, they would be like majorly creeped out. You can claim you wouldn't sell them online, but would any girl in her right mind believe you. This is just a few steps short of Ted Bundy weird.
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