-Been seeing this girl i met online for a couple months. We met in person 2 weeks ago and had a blast
-She has emotional problems, which i help her through and she's getting professional help for
-Last weekend (3 days ago) she flipped on me (due to her emotional problem) and said she wouldn't invite me to her party
-Shes been fine for a couple days now, everything is awesome between us... BUT her birhtday party is less then 12 hours away and she still hasn't said anything to me about inviting me
-I've dropped hints like "have fun at your party tonight" and "you know i requested off from work for you for today if you wanna invite me or hang out, you can, its no biggie if you dont tho"
anyway im secretly freaking out and really hurt and I don't know what to do. i feel it'd be awkward to ask why im not invited, only to cause her to feel obligated to invite me, you know? Please, anyone with advice? maybe i should ask before it starts? or wait till after?
If carry on being this clingy and needy, you won't last long with this girl or the next one or the one after that. You've only in person two weeks ago, you're not a relationship, you're not that serious, so she is not obliged to invite you to her Birthday party.
You seem to be quite manipulative with your texts by trying to make her feel bad on her Birthday and what is perhaps even more staggering is you branding her rude when it is you and only you that is displaying rudeness.
You've done plenty wrong and your reaction is unnecessary. You're acting like a child who throws his toys around when he doesn't get his own way.
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She doesn't want you there. That's all you need to know. Spend more time with her at your peril.
You were bombing her aand makinfg her feel quilty that you were not invited. She doesn't want you to be everywhere, she wants to have fun with friends too without you there. I would have been mad too.
You seem clingy. You seriously took day of because of her when you knew sge has a party and you were not invited?
She doesn't want you there. Id say never talk to her again if you don't go. There's no way in hell you should be giving someone emotional support and they purposely hurt you. Stay home. Watch a movie. Jack off. Drink. Eat. Be merry.
What did she say back to you when you dropped those hints? Sounds like she's still not going to let you go and I know she's got emotional problems but she's being unreasonable and selfish
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You've only been seeing her in person for 2 weeks. Probably she feels it's too early for you to meet her people.
She didn't invite you, you're not invited. You met two weeks ago.. Let it go.
Aww that’s not fair
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