Why does my friend keep hitting me in my boobs?
My friend is a guy before I start. We sit right next to each other in class. And almost everyday me and him will be talking and in some way he'll always seem to nudge me in my boobs with his arm. Sometimes he'll get me with his elbow and other times he'll smack his entire arm across my chest. And he's always reaching over me. (Especially across my chest.) At first I didn't worry about it because I saw it was just an accident and he would say sorry. But I'm starting to think that they're not accident anymore. Even though he still said sorry. Because it happens to often. So it's got me wondering. What's the deal?
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What Guys Said 4
I Knew the answer to this one before I read the details. He keeps hitting your boobs because he likes touching your boobs! I suggest that you either tell him to stop or, if you want him to really want to be a good friend and let him enjoy himself, you could actually just give him the go ahead to feel around all you want. I garantee that he will be your best friend for ever if you choose the second option. But seriously, he's doing it on purpose. If you decide to let him go ahead, leave me a comment, It would be really funny to find out that I actually did ur friend that big a favor by convincing you to do that. Remember, if you don't like it, tell him to stop the first couple times, slap him if he continues.
I guess he really likes boobs... maybe because he likes you ALOT lol but to be honest, that's really inappropriate at ur age or in ur thirties even... you should make him know that there are limits to physical touching... because in the end, all he is gonna end up doing to you is sexual harrassment/abuse if he doesn't learn its not right to do that
What Girls Said 1
I think that is very disresectful on his part to do that to you. I am not saying that because of my age, I'm saying if he is starting things out by hitting you in your breast, than what's next? I'm not a medical pro but I have been told by someone who is that being hit there can be cause problems in the future.