I think my brothers girlfriend is cheating on him?

[e92brah]

so my brother has been dating a girl for exactly 1 year as of yesterday. very nice girl, friendly, i like her, and looks like they love each other and that's great.

one Friday night at 12 i asked my brother where she was and he she's with her sister... and i hung out with my brother till 2-3am and she still was not home.

the week after that the same thing happened. she went out at 10pm to her sisters and she had makeup on SHE NEVER WEARS MAKEUP.

now here is why i am suspicious of her... she used to be a stripped in las vegas. and who knows what else she would do. and on top of that, she is very insecure.

i am seriously suspicious of her and i want to follow her one time im not kidding.

my brother is 29 years old and she's 24 going on 25. i am worried for my brother

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+1 y

i'm not saying she's not allowed to go out and have fun with friends/her sister but just something about it doesn't sit right with me. i kind of have a 6th sense

[MaskedSanity]

Unless you have actual evidence, you shouldn't air your suspicions to anyone, because otherwise you might end up driving a wedge in the family.

What if you are completely wrong? You'll have your brother turn on you and there will be tensions for awhile.

Snooping around is taking it too far. Your brother is an adult and decide for himself who he wants to be with. He doesn't need you stalking his girlfriend to make sure she's good.

Caring about him and such is fine, but you're being obsessive. God forbid you have children.

[Anonymous]

OMG SHE HAS MAKE UP. SHE MUST BE CHEATING!

Do you realize how ridiculous that sounds?

Now, Im not saying she isn't cheating but wearing make up doesn't tell much. I bet she wears light make up but you just don't notice it. She could have wanted to try new style, maybe she went out clubbing or something.

[e92brah]

her being an ex stripper does not sit well with me. especially now that she moved to new york, she lives in a pretty expensive apartment, and she doesn't work.

[Opinion Owner]

That would imply more ger returning to stripper or a prostitute. But we can't be sure about that either. It's her past and you just gotta let it go. Your brother is fine with it, so you should too.

[e92brah]

my brothers an idiot. doesn't matter if that's behind her, its in her personality.

[Opinion Owner]

It seems that you are the real idiot here. Her past is none of your business and she is your brother's gf, he likes her and accepts her, so I guess your opinion is unneccessary.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she is going out and stripping for some guys, but since she is not cheating it should be alright since she use to be a stripper

[e92brah]

.. you think i want my brother dating a girl like that? and potentially marrying her since he is 29 and getting around to that stage in his life

[MaskedSanity]

It's not your place to decide who your brother marries.