Instead of just asking your mom for her permission, I think you should talk to her about what's making you nervous and whether or not it's the right thing for you to do at this point. The people here don't know you or your boyfriend personally, so you're getting advice saying that you should spend the night with him, and some saying he might give you roofies. Your mom has a better idea of what's going on with you, she can probably offer more accurate advice than anyone here.
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It sounds to me like he is a respectful guy, and understands that you might be nervous. I'm sure if he is suggesting that he would sleep on the couch and you take his bed, that he isn't expecting you to have sex with him. I'm sure a little intimacy may be part of this sleepover, but nothing that he doesn't think that you are ready for..Just use common sense, and if you begin to feel uncomfortable say that you have to go home.
Sounds like you're trying to force-fit his morality onto yours.
Asking for your mother's consent and approval is to his credit.
How long have you been together? That might shed some light on the situation.
But it could be a great experience for you! Late-night pizza, watching TV together. Slow dancing.
I'd go for it, but he probably wants a you more than another guy. ;-)
Ted
Now here's a trivial question.
What is it exactly that you're nervous about?
What do you think is going to happen, love?
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Sounds a bit fishy. Especially given your age. If you've been together for a few months, then I think it's okay. But if this relationship is new for you, then you should go with your gut feeling.
Think positive about it. Worrying will get ya know where : )
Don't drink anything he gives you. Also, make sure you lock the door at night. This is a clever tactic so guys go: "I'm scared, can I sleep in the bed with you?"
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