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My sister likes to give me hugs, but I feel really awkward when her boobs get squished up against me, but how should I tell her that?

OK, my sister likes to hug (and I mean long, tight hugs) me a lot. I wouldn't call it excesive but it's definatley more than normal. For most people this wouldn't be a problem but she happens to be quite busty (if you're thinking about making a smart-alek remark, I've heard them all) and it makes me feel awkward when her boobs get smooshed up against my chest. Problem is I don't know how to tell her that without making her feel awkward. Any way I could tell her, or am I just a douchebag for feeling this way (I often feel like that)?
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  • Awww, I'll let you in on a little secret: while guys might associate physical contact with sex, girls associate it with love. Hugging a guy a girl knows and trust makes he feel warm and protected (hugging other girls makes us feel loved, but it doesn't evoke the same sense of security). But there's a catch, it has to be an all out hug (side and gap hugs won't do it) and the tighter the better, which means that if you have boobs, they're going to get smooshed up against whoever you're hugging. So she does it because you make her feel safe, warm, loved and protected, and hat should matter to you so much more to you than her boobs up against your chest (and if you still think that a naturally occurring part of the female body is a problem, just pretend that they're two soft comfy pillows ;)

    • two big breasts squeezing you are two big breasts squeezing you. although i dont see why it should be much of a problem when you are a sexually abundant man. its your sister for god's shake. i agree that men are turned on more by touching the female body though... .

  • What makes you feel awkward about it? If she didn't have big boobs would it bother you? She's just showing you affection, you're her brother and she loves you. Some people are just huggers. If you don't like to be hugged in general then it's ok to let her know that. You shouldn't feel obliged to let someone invade your space if it makes you feel uncomfortable, just make sure you let her know it's not a personal thing against her. If you feel awkward about the hugs purely because of her boobs then that's an issue you need to deal with.

  • Your not a douchebag for thinking it, but don't mention it.
    When I would hug my sister she would make a comment about how big my boons were and it made me so self conscious. Every comment about y boobs makes me self conscious even if it's a compliment or from my family.
    I recommend not mentioning it and just going with it. It may be a little weird but she can't really do anything about it, her boobs will always be there. So please just take one for the team

Most Helpful Guys

  • Think you have it bad? Imagine being enough younger that when she hugs you your face gets buried between her boobs. I faced that with strange gals in dancing class in grade school. They liked to dance REAL close.

  • u shouldn't bro... she's yer sis... u must know that :)

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  • If she's your sister just tell her straight up hey I don't like your boobs touching me. It feels gross. lol my brother said that to me

    • Did it make you uncomfortable when he said that?

    • No he's my brother I just told him his face looked gross lol guess it also depends on your relationship with her.. z my brother and I joke around often so maybe that's why we say things bluntly to eachother

  • You are being silly. It is just your sister.

  • Bro.. u will get used to it...

  • maybe try giving a half hug

    • I tried, but she just wraps her arms around me and holds tight :S

    • it's just a sister trying to give affection, but maybe say hey listen I like your hugs but your boobs pushing against me makes me feel awkward

  • Why does it bother you? They're just boobs?

    • Would it bother you if your brother's (or another male relative) squished his butt against you?

    • You sound like a child. Boob are like the center of a woman's body. If she has biggish boobs it's kind of impossible for her to hug somebody without them pressing against the other person. Grow up. Seriously.

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  • if she wants to squeez them on someone o matter what tell her i volunteer... .

    • That wasn't predictable -_-

    • you are the pervo getting all bony by your sister's voloptuous juicy tits. not me... .

    • I'm not getting bony and as for feeling them, I don't have a choice

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  • Just tell her the you would be more comfortable at a distance.

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