All my parents care about is their reputation?

Anonymous
So my parents recently found out that I have a boyfriend and that I went over to his house and initially they were mad at me for lying to them about it but now all they are talking about is how I've disgraced the family by going over to a boys house and that I've ruined the family name. Even though no one outside of our family knows about it they are making this out to be a big deal and theyre not listening to me when I tell that its normal and that nobody even cares. I was talking to my cousin about this situation and my mom got mad because she doesn't even want her to know, it's been a month since this happened yet this is all they still talk about. I don't know how to communicate to them that this isn't as big of a deal that they're making out to be (the fact that I have a boyfriend and that other people don't really care whether I do or not)
All my parents care about is their reputation?
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