One thing my father told me that has really stuck with me was: "When trust is lost, regaining that trust back, is one of the most difficult things to do."
He's right, and that's what's going on with you right now.
They trusted you when they left you alone in the house, you took it for granted and screwed up. You say you learnt your lesson, but you also told them they could trust you, so how are they supposed to believe you when you say you've learnt your lesson, when you previously lied?
And it's a big issue, that's why it's even worse.
You can write 7, 20, 50, 100 pages apologizing if you want, but you gotta show it. Words mean nothing if your actions show the opposite.
You got your punishment and you gotta deal with that, so just act right, follow the rules, do what your parents tell you, and hope they let you join the track team, but there's nothing else you can do. You wanted to act like an adult, then face the consequences like an adult.
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Trust once broken is hard to get back. Try this ( attemp to regain track ) being you stated that your mom is more reasonable and more forgiving. Have a one on one with her and explain how to are understanding and accept you punishments that they gave but would they lease consider not forbidding you from track / running. But for petes sake if your going to use this time to see your boyfriend be aware try can arrange for you to be spied on and if you think re gaining trust is hard just wait and see how bad it will be if they find you two were together.
With fascist parents, you either have to train them, earn their trust or side step them.
I think you understand the first two options, which means doing EVERYTHING they say, regardless of your whining wishes. If he was The One, he wouldn't have participated.
Side stepping is not tricky in this case.
You follow ALL their rules and this extra time will be spent on academics and training solo to stay in shape.
Your goal now is to enter college ASAP, even scholarships (in case they refuse to pay). In college, all your wishes will be finally fulfilled.
They just want their little girl to be safe and not have to worry about those things till you're old enough. They dont need their child auditioning for another season of mom at 16. I guess you just abide by their rules or have a conversation with them about it not just a seven page letter, seems to me they know you dont care too much about everything else being taken from you so theyre just hitting you were it hurts most for you to really learn your lesson. Getting them to change their minds might take moving heaven and earth.
If I have a daughter, I would be most pissed off if there was no protection. Be practical kid, and there is no point of trying to convince them. You explained yourself and leave it to that, next time get a hotel or even better- wait for a little more while.
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Well i understand you, but suffocating not always good for your personality, my mom beat me once when she knew that i liked a girl, i still remember, it was bad, i went to school next day and everybody asked me what happened to my hand and face, i told them its my younger brother, well i dont have one. Anyway i grow up and she still try to control me untik i ran away to another country, and now im still suffering fron these memories, im not able to help myself. I can't be part of that life anymore.
Your parents sound like assholes. This is a bit extreme
Just give it some time. Lay low, help out around the house, and try to do things that'll make them happy. And next time be a bit more open with your parents, though I'm sure you understand that.
First of all this could've been prevented as you obviously know. But how was it so easy for him to just come over. My parents are just like yours. They can be strict.
Maybe dad would of joined in if he caught you legs high or banging doggie
that happen to me a couple times when I was ur age lol
It's fine, I knkw any parents would do the same thing.
Your parents need to chill the fuck out.
Why was he allowed to come in the first place?
😕Well, your parents suck.
Your parents are too harsh.
It'll take time
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