I have been very tempted to before with how much back talk my younger brother gives me. But then I remember my mother slapping me and I realize that if I did that to him, I would be repeating her same mistake. So instead I just sort of stay away from him and don't really include him in my life. We love each other, but we get along better in small doses. We are exact opposites--I'm extremely ambitious, responsible, and intellectual while he is lazy, aloof, and athletic. I often find myself judging him as a simpleton underachiever while he sees me as boring and bossy.
The only time I ever put my hands on him was when he used force first by throwing his baseball glove at me as I was walking away. That was the final straw as I wasn't going to let him hit me around like his little bitch. I put him in his place and he never did it again.
What I hate as the oldest child is that parents are never as strict with your younger siblings as they were with you. It often leads to resentment and jealousy.
Well if anime's anything to go by you'll start off like that then you'll end up in a compromising position, you'll both blush, then there'll be an entire episode with mild incestous subtext usually culminating into something along the lines of "I love my brother/sister!"
Then they'll do that weird ^_^ thing that creeps the ever lasting fuck out of me.
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No. In that case, it would just be counterproductive. You slap them for disrespecting you, but you won't be earning their respect by doing so. The only thing you'll achieve by doing that is give them a reason to either fear you or hold you in contempt.
Do not slap your siblings lmfao. It'll get you nowhere. And you'll just end up fighting each other.
You are 18-24 years old. Use words.
It's never ok to slap/hit someone to get your points across. Otherwise, they are going to learn that from you and eventually hit you back.
i never do that unless I'm provoked physically and I'm defending myself or just so pissed that she actually just went there.
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I always did it to teach them a lesson, but I was careful to do it softly so it didn't actually hurt, but just showing that I could. Cause most the time they were just doing stuff they shouldn't and knew I couldn't do anything cause my mum hates violence. So I had to do it to show them they couldn't do whatever they wanted
it's not really ok, but i think most everyone who's had that problem has lost their cool and done it anyways.
Depends on the age. Its good to learn to deal with people at a early age with NOT hitting them. Because later in your job, relationsship whatever you can't slap people anymore (ok, you can, but you will have to take the consequences)
Nope.
No slapping.
Just get quiet, or raise voice if you must but don't hit each other.
physical voilence may contaminate one's thought and mindset..
a polite example will make him a better human
No, it's not okay either way.
Physical abuse is NOT ok. Period.
No he started it 😊. I would smack him.
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