i found a girl in a social network website...n I really got impressed with her looks... I sent a friend request but she denied that...n m not knowing how to impress her. I know that by talking with her only makes sense to impress but m not getting a chance for conversation. please suggest me I really got stuck.
Complimenting a woman's looks at first, or even being too interested by JUST looks at the very outset=bad. VERY bad. You have to qualify a woman and see if you're interested in her for something more than her looks. Don't give it away that you just find her hot, especially in the first greeting (there are exceptions where it may work, but in general I don't think it does).
Anyway, of course she'll deny the friend request if that's all you send without even knowing her. It's best to do this kind of thing if you already have a mutual friend(s) on the same site, but if not, and she lives in the same city as you, I guess you could just send her a short, simple, innocent message saying you're looking to make new friends in the city. That, and make sure you have a nice, clear, HQ, smiling profile pic--a pic taken from the side might be better than looking straight at the camera. Other than that, you're still a stranger and the risk for rejection is high, but doing those things may improve your odds. Best of luck though
What do you mean "but m not getting a chance for conversation"? She's some business lady or what?
Sending just friend invite and nothing else is kinda insecure if you ask me.
See her online? Say hi and start any random conversation that comes in your head (well, except sex, not the best topic for a first talk).
honestly, I hate it when guys do that. Especially the ones that write somthing like "Hey you're really hot, we gotta meet someday" That's so dumb! Seriously
You should probably write her a message but don't point out her looks.I mean its always nice to get compliments but make sure you don't reduce her to the way she looks (exept you want a one night stand) Look at her profile maybe you'll find something that you have in common and talk about that.
If you have mutual friends you might just ask them if they can introduce you to her in realy life.
You were impressed with her looks? I hope you didn't tell her that..
Find something substancial about her that you like, maybe an article she wrote, a picture she drew, anything you can show interest in. Talk to her about it and THEN ask her to be friends.
Sending a friend invite without any underlying reason to seems suspicious, so why would she accept?
Next time, at least send her a message along with your invite
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You're in a catch-22. The only way to accomplish your goals of meeting women online, throwing yourself at them with little communication, and having some success there simply because they look hot, you need to play the probability. Fixating on one woman won't get you anywhere, either change your methodology, or use the same method on hundreds of women to have success with one or two.
You can't make other people do anything. Do you think you were the only one who sent her a friend request? Try using a dating site. At least the women on those sites have some interest in meeting men.
Just be funny and nice. Don't compliment her looks and don't call her any nicknames like darling or baby that creeps me out
I've never been on there
You can't force someone to accept.
Aren't you a little old for this?
Because girls want to look inaccessible.
u You don’t
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