If she does this every once in a while, does that mean she put you in the friend zone?
If a girl talks to you about a lot of things/problems...
If she does this every once in a while, does that mean she put you in the friend zone?
No, I don't think she has friend zoned you if that what you are wondering. I think she feels open with you to talk to you about these type of things. She could also be dropping you a hint that she may like you. But in all I wouldn't say you are friend zoned. Yes, you are her friend but I think she is very comfortable with you and that is important for girls. Just feel her out and see if she is actually interested in you. Take it slow and be proud that she is comfortable with you.
Soo... The guy answered I am in the friend zone and you say I'm not. By the way she doesn't call me up to talk about her problems. We were walking back from a party and she started talking about things.
Then you are friend zoned then. From what I got it sounded like she talked to you about her problems. But the thing with girls is half the time we think we know what we want and then the other half the time we don't know what we want. So just stay friends with her and who knows she may develop something for you.
I'm not trying to be rude, but why did you change your mind?
Because I thought she came to you to talk about her problems. I thought you were saying that she comes to you about her problems, worries, and feelings. I still believe that you can get out of the friend zone. Most people can they just have to put an effort into it. Put an effort like try to be the person that she can come to when she needs to talk. let her know that you will be there and that you won't just flake on her.
Haha OK just to be clear: If she came to me to talk about concerns she had, I'm not necessarily in the friend zone. But if she was walking back with me and talked about things, I am in the friend zone?
Either way I think I might just play it out and see what happens. Thanks for your responses by the way.
Lol no problem. But honestly I think you should just play things out and see where things go. I think when she is coming to you about her concerns and problems than you are not in the friend zone. I don't like guys knowing about my problems and concerns and the guys that do know about them are the ones that I trust fully and usually can see being in a relationship with them.
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