Don't see why she still texts me?

[DancesWithWolves3]

I told this Girl I've known for a month or 2 that I liked her and this was her response:

I'm flattered but I don't want anything at the moment with stuff going on and I don't want to lead you on and I don't expect you to like be waiting around for me to stop being weird, I totally didn't think you thought of me like that. Really flattered though.

We texted a bit after this just normal stuff, then I went to sleep, woke up the next day and just put it out my mind, I decided not to bother texting her anymore and wasn't expecting her to text me anymore either, yet yesterday and today she text me just like she normally would like nothing had been said, I don't get it, she ain't interested so why text me still ? I've only know her like 2 month at most so its not like we had a close friendship or anything before I told her I liked her.

[MmaTender]

one, at least she was honest enough to tell you she isn't interested and did it nicely. That sounds like a good friend to have.

two, perhaps she is interested... Here's the catch as she said... There's NOTHING she can do about it, maybe she hates men, has to much on her plate, ect. You have to respect that. Be there for when she comes around, and maybe all this time you've spent will cause something to happen when she is ready. It takes two man...

The only thing you can do is focus on what you have going on in your life

[Anonymous]

well you don't like her you just wanted to bang her. so who cares, hit it and quit it.

[Brentley]

She clearly said it, she doesn't want anything more than friendship with you at the moment. Just because a women tells you that they would rather be friends, it doesn't mean that you stop talking to them. Why wouldn't you want to talk to her anymore? I don't exactly understand that. I'm just curious. It seems like if you like someone, even if they don't like you back, you would still want to have them in your life, and to be around them.

[DancesWithWolves3]

Its the fact that her friend asked me if she could have my number then we didn't talk for a week then started texting every day and then 2 month later the current situation happened, so its obvious I liked her from the start and I don't get her reply I see no mention of friendship at no point does she say lets just be friends and even if that's what she means why after only knowing me for 2 months at most she wants to be friends, we both have plenty of friends and me liking her makes it awkward.

[Brentley]

Oh OK. Her continuing to text you is her saying "Let's be friends," without actually saying it. Tell her that you would rather not talk to her for a while until you don't like her anymore.

[Purple_Lotus]

I have to agree with Brentley. She expected for you to take her response and run with it. Just because she doesn't want to be with you doesn't mean she wants the friendship to end. Yeah its only been 2months but just because there wasn't anything going on before you told her how you felt, doesn't mean you should completely cut her off.

[babygirltiffie]

she probably just wants to still be friends...im the same way. just because I don't wanna go further then friendship with a guy doesn't mean I don't wanna be friends

[Anonymous]

She wants to be your friend