Should I tell her how I feel eventhough she has a Boyfriend?

[lonlyguy]

this girl I have had a crush on for the last few months has a boyfriend. we talk and flirt all the time. sometimes I get the feeling she wants more but I won't do anything until she is single. I don' t know if I should tell her how I feel or just leave her alone until she figures it out on her own. I just need some advice because it is kinda confusing. I really don't want to ruin our friendship since I have known her since elementary school. We just seem to have a lot in common and always make each other laugh and have never had a bad time together.

[cutiepatootie]

WOW I was the girl in a situation exactly the same as that.chances are she knows how you feel already.us girls are pretty good at that.but I got to know the guy really well as a friend first and he came to realize that my boyfriend was abusive to me and I had been too afraid to tell anyone but he helped me soo much and was just there for me and eventually he helped me get the strength to break up with the loser.so now we have been dating for a few months and he is being deployed to iraq in 10 days :( he will be gone for 15 months so I don't know what I'm gunna do without him

[rolfen]

Unless she feels strongly for you, she will most probably tell you no, she has a bf, even if she wants you. It's because she has to be loyal to her bf. it's a question of honor.

You can also read her body language and signs, and try to make a move on her.

Just my humble opinion.

[Jamerz]

wait! don't get yourself in a drama fest. Just keep in touch with her and see what happens but whatever you do DONT get in the "friend" status with her! good luck

[LewTay]

I'm unsure, but it depends on the girl and how she reacts to problems. Then again if you really like her you should tell her while you can or you might find yourself regretting your decision to stay quiet.

[max-watte]

Yea don't tell her anything like that. That's going to be really awkward after and not a good thing if you want her if her other guy falls from view. Its probably worth the wait!

[Anonymous]

Probably not. She's in a relationship. Why but in?