What is the best way to leave a girlfriend without hurting her?

And remaining friends?

The classic sentence 'I don't deserve you'

is good?


Most Helpful Girl

  • there's no magical words you can say that will produce the results you want. she will be hurt and she will hate you. whether or not you guys can be friends will depends on her


What Girls Said 4

  • It will hurt her either ways..

    Just be honest but NOT TOO honest.

  • listen to "say goodbye' by chris brown.

    there's never a right time to say goodbye. and there is no good in bye.

  • If it's b.s., any kind of sentence, classic or not, won't work. It'll just add salt to the wound. Even if you really mean "I don't deserve you", it's still going to hurt her. Anyways, that sentence just makes me feel like I should keep trying. ( and it sounds just as bad as "It's not you, It's me.")There's no way to avoid hurting her.


What Guys Said 1

  • It quite obvious that your not breaking up with her because you don't deserve her and if I can see it then she will to. Just be honest with her, even if it means hurting her feelings. She will respect you for it in the long run and you may have a chance at being friends somewhere down the line.

    A sure fire way to not be friends with her is to pull out every cliche line in the book.