Boyfriend didn't wish me Merry Christmas!

[Anonymous]

Today is Christmas and in the morning I texted merry Christmas to my boyfriend yet it bothers me that he never said it back. I understand he's busy and stuff but he can't take the time to send me a merry Christmas. It just makes me heartbroken and hurt my feelings.

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Am I wrong to be sad just because he didn't say it?

[zinclozenges]

Yeah, this is so wrong. You should feel very upset. My FRIENDS texted me back immediately, and my man CALLED me to wish me a Merry Christmas. You have every right to be mad.

[l0502]

I wouldn't be so worried. On most holidays I don't have a clue where my phone is, it's about being with family.

[klacey94]

Yeah but she's his girfriend which makes her family... so if its all about family he vould of said merry Christmas at least.

[Hartmut]

Don't be so hasty. Perhaps his phone is switched off, or maybe the battery died. I mean, they're possibilities, right? Has this sort of thing happened before between ye?

[Asker]

No it hasn't happened before. every holiday even if he was busy he said it and my best friend says she would be mad also

[Hartmut]

I'm just saying that perhaps he was unable to contact you for some reason. I mean, suppose for a moment that it was, in fact, out of his control? I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate any jump to conclusions in that scenario.

If, however, this isn't the case, then, yes, you're wihin your rights to be upset. I'd just advise you reserve your judgement until the truth comes to light.

[Asker]

he apologized because he felt bad and gave me flowers

[Hartmut]

And you forgive him?

[snackeyg]

What's the question? lol

[snackeyg]

Not at all. A girl I've fallen for that lives 850 miles away wanted to say it to me first. It's messed up he didn't say it.