Oh my goodness what a pickle. So he mother to his other children doesn't know about you or your child with him?
I am so sorry to hear this. You really must be hurting right now and I'm sad that there is nothing we can do or say immediatly to make you feel better.
I think if we try and look at this simply, although it's not. He is hiding you? What is your gut feeling?
Perhaps they had a bad patch and got back together. Perhaps he is telling the truth and feels stuck.
Perhaps this whole time he is taking you for a ride and you have just been his woman on the side.
It really seems as though, due to him not telling her about you. That he isn't caring about you as much as he should. It's not right to treat you like this and I think you know it.
If he lives with her how much quality time are you and your child getting?
I also believe this other woman has a right to know he has a new baby.
But I don't think your the person to tell her.
Do you see a future with him? Will he move in with you?
This is all terrible I don't really know what to say.
My gut is telling me to tell you to wait until you know he is out, go to his house, and show the woman the baby. Tell her it's his, tell her about the last year then leave his ass.
But given the situation I know this is terrible advice.
But both you and this woman deserve better.
Are you on social media? Or does he hide you from his social accounts also?
I really think you should put your foot down and tell him he needs to come clean with this woman or you two are through. Yes the baby needs a dad I completely agree, but he is leading a double life.
Is there someway you can get this woman to find out which won't be obviously down to you?
My goodness sweetie you poor thing xx
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well hmmm does the baby mama know about you? also do you still feel like they are together? My ex and I still live together so we don't have to fight for custody but were no longer married nor together do they sleep in the same bed?
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