How can I get over this?
My boyfriend is a cat guy and it bothers me.
How can I get over this?
The guy adores his cat, he shows his capabilities to assert his feelings. Most girls would love to be in your shoes! Especially when he says he loves you more than his cat too!
You look at that likes it's nothing, because you don't feel the way he does toward his cat. If you look from his side it's a huge compliment. He loves his cat, that part is obvious to you, he loves you more than his cat, this part you reject because to you "it's just a cat", but to him it's an animal he loves and cares a lot about.
You haven't explained why it bothers you by the way. It's something positive he has in his life, that makes him happy. You also say everything else is nearly perfect between you guys. You should ask yourself why it bothers you so much, especially when it's something positive in his life, it should make you feel good to see him happy, but instead it's upseting to you.
Are you jaelous of the attention he gives his cat, you want 100% of his attention to yourself? Or is it something else?
He;s had his cat for years, you for less time than his cat presumably. Pets are family often times. So yeah you're a human being, doesn't mean he'll put his cat's life over yours but he may have more affection for hsi pet than for you.
this would bug me too and for some reason yeah I wouldn't be able to hang with this at. all. lol
I don't know why but this would not be attractive to me at all like guys say> instant boner killer... yeah that's what this would do for me :S good luck sister :\
As much as I like cats.
I think cat obsesed men are far to effiminate and boardering on gay. It's cool to like your pet, but not be obsesed.
I hope he doesn't have a mug with hhis cats picture printed on it, or worse, a t shirt.
It's OK. My ex loved his cat. Yes, I thought it was weird, but if a dude loves animals, he's probably a good person.
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Hey that's quite a compliment. Cats are very difficult to get to know but once tey trust you they are very affectionate. How many women can say the same?
Good point. I'll try to look at it that way.
the cat will die before you.
The cat will [probably] die before you.
His cat is 7. So she has probably 7-10 more years. I want to get a dog some day and my boyfriend hates dogs : <
how is that different from you hating his cat?
It's not. it just sucks that we have this difference
Well, he already has the cat, so you can't really expect to get him to throw his cat out. Don't see why you can't love the cat, too, though.
I've tried. She only likes him though
It'll change with time, cats have to get used to foreign elements. Dogs usually take to new people pretty quickly, they're social creatures, so for dog folk like you and I, cats can be a handful to get used to.
i don't understand why it bothers you. it's just an animal. is he choosing to spend time with it instead of you?
Not really. But once he said he felt that him and I were spending too much time together and he needs more time to spend smoking weed in his room and hanging out with his cat. >.<
think he was probably joking
I wouldn't push the issue. If my cat doesn't like my girlfriend then perhaps it is aware of something I am not. Come to think of it one of my ex's my cat didn't like and it took me a little while to realize how horrible the match was.
I am a cat person...do you wish to become friends with the cat?...if not you should probably find someone else..if so...I can help u...
Yeah but we get 3 points to answer Q's, don't give a rat's ass it's months old ^^
are you jealous of his cat?
No offense Shaun, but why are you answering a question that was directed towards me?
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