BF is still talking to ex lovers. Sending them messages 'Hey Sexy miss you.' Why do I keep putting up with this I know its wrong and that I shouldn't put up with it yet I still continue too. Even if he hasn't cheated on me sending messages to other women like that is wrong. He never calls me sexy Yet sais he needs someone like me Because I'm a good girl. I hate being taken advantage off =( Why can't I just leave it... I'm not normally like this...
That's not normal and you should be concerned. You're probably putting up with it because you have feelings for him and you don't like the idea of going through a break-up. You should let him know that this bothers you and he must stop. Otherwise, I'd suggest finding a new boyfriend who DOES call you "Sexy". They're easy to find.
Wtf...he is using you...he calls his exs "(sex)"y? ...once they used to be in your position...but your better because he gets to shagg and cheat all he wants and there is always a girl he will have as a back up.
Thats the game some girls play too...they shagg every guy they fancy and keep a nice guy on the side and throw him a dog bone once in a while to keep him interested until they had enough...
either do the same...tell him to stop (meaning if he does it again its over) (he might do it in secret)..or dump him...
i hate untrustworthy people in friendship and in relationship.
You need to leave. Even if he has physically cheated on you, he emotionally has and it is only a matter of time before he goes the next step. Him calling you a "good girl" means "door mat" in this sit. You need to cut your losses. It will hurt, but you need to do so, especially with this douche bag. If you are a 'good girl' you need a 'good MAN' to match you and respect you.
that is really odd. I mean like if I caught my guy doing that, then I would investigate. it sounds like they're having a relationships. not cool. not cool. um but don't you know yell and get angry. I would just cut ties. well it's up to you but it sounds suspicious.
im the same hunny my boyfriend is still talking to his ex and she cheated on his plenty of time yet he wants to be in a open relationship with her ? so I no this is wrong but I go through his phone of a night and he's sending her texts like ' I love you ' & ' I miss you ' so I no how you feel. I just thought id tell you that your not alone sweet. xxx
It's because you need someone there for you. But trust honey, you don't deserve this. You can find a much more respectful boyfriend who would never dream of texting other ladies like that, much less exes. Though you may be attracted to him, don't put yourself through this it's not fair to you.
i have an ex like that, the best way to deal with them is to tell them your not interested in them, the relationship is over and your not going back and that you dony whant him to call you thinkgs like sexy as it may get his hopes uo and then they will be crushed in the long term. it worked for me
You need to get out of the relationship, plain and simple... and fast. You need to higher your bar for men. Saying that you can't help it isn't an excuse. You really need to work on having higher standards. It's much healthier for you and foolish if you don't try.
I think you should bring up the idea of an open relationship. See how he reacts and see if he likes the idea of you having Interest in someone else other than him. Even if you dont. If he acts like those kind of texts are okay, then why shld you guys be in a committed relationship.
Trust me hun, I've been there! He may be talking to them like this but how the hell do you know what he is doing when you are not there? I know when I found out it was more than just talking. Get rid of him. There are better guys out there...not saying great guys, but better ones. You need to show him that you are strong and don't need him, or else he will know that he can continue to run over you and you will just let him. Men. Ugh.
Dump his sorry arse. I'd be fuming if my guy was doing that, even just to girls that weren't his ex-lovers. Don't be a doormat, get of of there and get a guy that respects you, because he obviously doesn't.