My boyfriend is hanging out with another girl and lying about what he is doing? WHAT DO I DO?

[NicoleVeitch]

Okay so my boyfriend knows this girl and he hangs out with her but he lies to me and says that he is doing something else and when I find out and ask him about he he says they are just friends and he only lied cause he thought I would be mad. This has happened may times and he has ditched me for her before (on his birthday) recently she became single again and he had me check on my facebook is she was listed as single because he doesn't have facebook and I'm just worried that there is something more there because he doesn't even tell her that he is in a relationship and she knows who I am because she is a regular customer at my work..

Help please how do I confront him and what do I say and how to I know if he is lying?

HELPPPPP! I want to ask him about it today

[xxAdrianna]

You HAVE to talk to him before you set yourself on breaking up with him. When you two are alone you just need to talk to him about it straight up, but stay calm. Be up front with him and express your worries, and if you aren't comfortable enough to do that then that by itself is a sign that maybe you two should break things off. But assuming you do confront him about your suspicions and he denies it again then you really just need to go with your gut and what you really feel. If you think he's not treating your relationship with respect then just let him go, because guys like that don't change until they really want to. Good luck girl, :)

[NicoleVeitch]

Okay so I did confront him about it and we talked and he told me that in the summer (when we had just met but weren't dating or anything) they kissed but it was a mistake and he knows how I feel about him and her and even though there is nothing there now he wasn't telling me they were hanging out because of his buisness & he doesn't want girl drama involved cause she is a customer and I work for there buisness. He seemed scinsere and he has been talking about getting serious and settling down

[xxAdrianna]

Ok. Just be careful. If you feel suspicious that he's lying again then you should rethink the relationship. Now that he knows how you feel though he shouldn't be sneaking around with her anymore, even if they're just friends.

[fellylove]

BREAK UP WITH HIM THE NEXT TIME YOU SEE HIM. we girls don't need guys that lie to us. and DEFINETLEY DONT NEED GUYS THAT CHEAT ON US. they thinkk that they can just get away with anything, and if he lies to you about where he was... what makes you think he's not lieing about them being JUST FRIENDS. when a guy says they're JUST FRIENDS, he really means WE HAVE SOMETHING THERE. ughhh guys are such asswholes -_- but really dump him, you can find a better guy that will treat you well, and never lies to you. & def not cheat. :) good luck <3

[AmazingParkour]

Sounds like something's up. You better do something before it gets even worse.

[Shaun]

Always dump:

Liars.

Cheaters.

Abusers.

[NicoleVeitch]

so your saying that he's lying?

[Shaun]

"he hangs out with her but he LIES to me and says that he is doing something else "

your words.