This has happened to me at least four times. I will date a guy and then they will end up getting a girlfriend shortly after. I'm not desperate but I do want a relationship. There was this one guy that I dated for 4 months. We were still figuring each other out and when I realized I wanted to date him and that I was starting to have feelings for him and things started to get physical (we didn't have sex, but I gave him a hang job) I told him that I need us to be in a relationship or end things. We couldn't really see a future together. I'm a virgin so he would have had to wait a while and become my boyfriend. I think he would have felt guilty being my first and my first boyfriend. I think he would have felt bad considering we didn't really seeing the future. He basically chose to end things. We were still good friends and talked just about every day over the summer, I felt like we were pretty much dating again. We were talking, texting, or seeing each other everyday. Then all of a sudden I didn't hear from him for two weeks. Then I found out through fb that he got a girlfriend. Like I said things like this have happened to me before. Just not sure why, any comments, or suggests on why this happened and other things like this have happened.
Why am I always the girl, before the girlfriend?
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