"My best friend likes my ex/the guy I like" Why do girls make a big deal out of it?

WeaponZero
I hear women whine about it a lot. "My best friend is going after the guy that I like!" "My friend is dating my ex!" Like there's some sort of code making it so that if you like someone, nobody who knows you is allowed to like him too.

Doesn't work like that. If you like him, make a move or MOVE ALONG. If you like him and he doesn't like you back, then saying your friends who MAY actually have a chance with him can't go after him is nothing but pure immature SELFISHNESS.

Not only that but if I was in the guy's shoes, and a girl I liked (who also liked me back) said no because her friend who I had no interest in whatsoever also like me, that would be really inconsiderate to ME.

The same holds true for exes. If a girl I dated a few months or even years ago and I didn't work out, and I decided I wanted to date one of her friends who I liked more and felt it COULD work out with, why should the fact that little miss drama queen can't get over it after all this time have any impact on our decisions whatsoever? She needs to understand she is depriving two people of potential happiness with her rules, and since the needs of the many outweight the needs of the few, THAT is pure selfishness.

Rant over.

See my point, ladies?
"My best friend likes my ex/the guy I like" Why do girls make a big deal out of it?
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