Basically he was aggravated about some things and didn't want to be around me. His reasoning as he told me was that he didn't want to be mean to me and snap at me because he was so aggravated. So he didn't want to be around me and possibly hurt my feelings. I said fine and we didn't talk the whole day. The whole week leading up to this he had been in a mood. So when he was saying he didn't feel like seeing me, I honestly thought he just wanted to break up. I talked to him and he listed reason why he was aggravated money, his truck, his boat, and needing a better job. I knew all of this and told him I understood. But then he said that he doesn't like going to my house because my family always loud, he doesn't think we have a lot in common (but we do,especially important things), he is worried because his last serious relationship didn't turn out well, and that I'm kinda a messy person and he doesn't want a wife like that. I told him my family can't change and they even aggravate me, and I do think we have plenty in common( then he agreed), I'm worried too about being in a serious relationship as well because of my last one too, and that I am a clean person but I've got 2 jobs and school so sometimes my chores aren't priority. He said he wants to work it out if I do and he still wants to be my boyfriend. So my question is if he thinks all this is wrong why hasn't he said something before and why is he still with me? Or is it him just being stressed and saying things he may not mean or something. Anybody had a similar situation? Or have an idea of what he might be thinking?
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For future ref in case someone crosses this. His fears about our relationship were exaggerated be cause of stress. Things are better than before and it's never been an issue again. He said he didn't mean the things he said and he wants to be with me. We just made 6 months :)
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