No, you didn't do anything wrong. Offering to pay for the shoes showed class on your part. As to cutting you out as a bridesmaid, did she give any reason or hint as to why? Was there any bad blood between you two that would cause this?
Whatever the reason, I'm sorry this happened to you. I can't even imagine what you're going through right now, but I'm certain it's horrible. That's very unfair of her to cut you and your other sister out like that. And the fact that she didn't even have the courage to tell you face-to-face is just classless on her part.
I hope that things work out between you two; I really do. :(
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People are often frazzled by wedding preparations and not in their right minds. Of course you have to go to the wedding. If I were you I'd go head and go to the rehearsal and talk to your sister there. Don't even brin gup the shoes, she's probably too overhwelmed with things to even think about it. Just let everything ride and don't contradict her about anything. She sounds like she can't handle any complications right now.
After all, it's her only wedding day...probably! Certainly the only 'frist' one!
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She is acting like a retarded, angry, narcissistic child. I suggest you cut her out of your life for like, five years -- give her a chance to mature on her own. She plainly has no business interacting with people, so treat her like a pariah and she should eventually reform her terrible attitude.
After the British nuptual fiasco wherein Kate Middletons sister showed up dressed like like a spotted d*** tart and misappropriated the bridal thunder, brides everywhere are afraid that if they should allow their sister to be the "maid of honor" she'll might Pipper-out on them.
Why would she get mad about you offering to pay for the shoes? Was you paying for the shoes going to be some sort of a wedding gift or something? I like the idea that cjwright79 gave where you just cut her out of your life for a while and just wait for that one day that she'll come around and you guys will get along better.
Im pretty sure I already saw this episode of bridezillas...
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