My boyfriend had his female friend sleep over his house?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend had his female friend stay the night at his house. at the time she stayed the night there she thought me and my boyfriend were not in a relationship. my boyfriend brought her over to my house when he picked our son up. I then asked him where his female friend was staying the night. he told me then they left. I then rang him telling him I felt uncomfortable with her staying the night there he then said its too late. was it inappropriate for him to have her stay the night knowing I was uncomfortable with it? by the way this is the same female friend he was writing " I miss you a lot xxo" to and lied bout hanging out with .

[KERMlT]

Ultimately it comes down to trust. It takes two to tango. Do you trust your boyfriend 100%? By what you stated how you felt, I would say no. Perhaps you have some baggage from a previous relationship, or you are picking up on a subconscious vibe from your Boyfriend that he is the type of person to get some if you aren't around.

[Asker]

its got nothing to do with my past relationships. its my first real relaionship and its been a roller coaster. my boyfriend went on dating sites numerous of times. he has lied to me bout hanging out with this same female friend when he text me he told me he was staying home. I later found out he lied. he dirty danced with a co wroker at a club.

[KERMlT]

Maybe you need to find a better boyfriend. You picked up a questionable apple where other women probably wouldn't have bothered. Relationships shouldn't be annoying or frustrating. You could do a lot better.

[gaurav83]

anything is possible in your case. You should better come up with something more concrete. They might have had sex or he was concerned because it was really too late. You can ask the girl through some casual talk if she likes your BF. If she doesn't then I don't think there is any problem.

[NoOneListens21]

y would she tell her that she likes him if she does

[Asker]

i just wanted to know if it was inappropriate for him to still have her stay the night after I told him I was uncomfortable with it. I don't talk to her for the simple fact she was telling my boyfriend what I should and shouldn't be writting on my Facebook.

[Alice_Infinity]

No way would I accept that! Talk about disrespect to you! If she had no where to sleep she can sleep at your place. Honestly if my boyfriend put me in that situation I would be extremely angry and consider leaving the relationship, then again I guess you have a child so it's more complicated...

[Asker]

we have 2 children

[NoOneListens21]

it was but if she slept on the sofa then meh but still he shoulda respected your decision.

[gaurav83]

yeah it was inappropriate in a way. I really don't know what was he thinking but considering he is innocent so proabably he was keeping his words and shows care for her. But obviously you can never tell. I think you should observe if he would do anything like that again. Then it will be a serious matter. For once let it go bcoz now he won't make any prior commitments to his friend that would hurt you if he is smart enough to understand the situation.

[Anonymous]

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