Are you 100% sure this is the right guy is for you?
This isn't just about him wanting to spend time with his own family and not yours but it's about mutual respect. For example, the vast majority of us prefer to be with our own family and not a partners, we feel more comfortable around them, etc but it's incredibly important that you make an effort especially when it's a long term relationship.
In time those people could become your family too, you get married and they're part of the package as do other siblings, extended family too so you have to go out of your way to keep everyone happy.
The fact your boyfriend is unwilling to do this is not only selfish and immature, it's also worrying because it could indicate he doesn't see a long term future for you together.
When your in a relationship you have to expect that your partner will (at times) put his own family before yours BUT he should put YOU before everyone, you are the number one in his life (until a time where you have children) and he should show that when he deals with them. it's his job to make it clear to his family that he respects you and puts you first.
This guy isn't a child, he isn't a teen growing up and so he's at an age where he probably will never change, it might happen but it's unlikely because he is arguing that he's right and your in the wrong. And so you have the choice of accepting this is the way it is or you walk away.
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Hmm. Sounds like he doesn't really dig your parents. Have you mentioned your feelings about this? Many girls keep their mouth shut and expect the dude to know what's going on. Tell him you're not just gonna go with him everywhere to see his family, when he won't do the same for you.
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A girls mentality is very tricky but, have you ever asked him to spend more time with your family?
Update, what happened b/w you two?
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