I am not sure if Ben is still interested in me, but he hasn't been coming on to me at all. We never hang out alone and I don't even see him often. I can understand how my boyfriend feels but I've been friends with Ben for a long time and I don't think it's fair to break contact with him because of something that a friend says about him.
I also have a feeling that Amy may have lied to my boyfriend. Ben has a huge crush on Amy and I know he told her he used to like me but it would be pretty stupid of him to tell her he still did. Amy may also see me as competition and is telling my boyfriend to get me out of the way.
I talked to Ben about this issue and he denied liking me, of course. I told my boyfriend about this and now he is very upset.
What should I do? I know I would be hurt if I were in my boyfriend's situation but I don't want to hurt Ben just because of some gossip.
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