Your guy friend has a crush on you, but you don't feel the same way about him and you want to be only friends. Let's say he tells you this, "Either I become your boyfriend or I'm nothing to you at all." You reject him and he never speaks to you again, ladies, would you care or not?
Ladies, how would you feel if your guy friend did this to you
What Girls Said 7
Of course I wouldn't care. If you were really a "friend" then you wouldn't of cut her outta your life for rejecting you. She's prob glad to be rid of you. Oh and in the future I wouldn't throw out an ultimatum if you're not able to deal w the consequences.1
Why should the girl care when the guy's so obviously selfish and doesn't care about how the girl feels?1
Well, I would think he was an a**hole. Also, I would question why I was ever friends with someone like that. So, nope I wouldn't care. That's me though.2
If I'm friends with a guy and he gives me that ultimatum, I'm walking away. I will not let someone black mail me.0
Well,same thing happened to me. This friend asked me to be his girlfriend. I thought he was joking so I just laughed and tried to brush it off. but turned out he wasn't ,so I just told him I don't feel same way . I just like us to remain friends. He got mad and started avoiding me. I tried to talk to him but then he said furiously "Either you be my girlfriend or I'm nothing to you at all. Our friendship is over" That moment I lost the respect I had for him and stopped talking to him. infact my friends made sure that I'm never alone in the corridor so he won't get a chance to come to talk me. Couple of months passed,I was happy with my friends and busy with studies. Then one day I was just waiting for my friends when he came and tried to talk to me. asked me "hi,how are you?" "Fine. now if you'll just excuse me,I gotta go. I'm busy atm" and walked away. I left that college after couple of months. I simply stopped caring about him0
Do not give in to his selfish demands. If he behaves the way he is now, can you imagine what he would be like if he and you enter into a relationship ?1
If you don't have any feelings for him, you can't force yourself to be his girlfriend. You can still care for him as a friend.
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