Does he see me as a friend (or like a daughter) or something else?

This guy is 12 years older than me, I know he likes me, I just don't know in what aspect. I'm thinking he just likes me as friends because he is always there for me when I need someone to talk to, and gives great advice. he's always looking out for me, and my best interests. it reminds me of something a father would do. He doesn't look at my body much(at least not that I can see). But he gives me tons of compliments and says I'm pretty, and he does compliment my body, just not in a sexual way. I know the age gap isn't much but I get a "father/daughter" vibe coming from him. am I reading him wrong?


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  • It's too difficult to be sure, but I can expand on what this situation might be. To me, it sounds like he does like you - at your age you should trust your instincts, they've had enough time to build such readings. Like the Electra complex he might be assuming, are you attracted to him?

    Short answer, he wants you and is a little afraid of being too direct. Most likely you'll have to give more signals than he does.

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      this is a wonderful answer thanks alot. :)