On off non-exclusive relationship, what to do ?

i'm in on off relationship. well we are not exclusively dating, but we've been going out for about 6 months and during that period of time, we've been on and off. first of all I can't tell what kind of relationship is this, but we are seeing each other for months and spend most of our times... Show More

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  • Maybe you feel its wrong cause society teached you to feel its wrong. Investigate about poliamory, theirs way of thinking etc.

    At least he seems honest. Having a casual relationship doesn't mean "using you" as long as he treats you right and behave like a friend, shows affection, not necesary boyfriend affection, but friend' s affection.

    If he just have sex with you and that is all, then you probably are being used, but if he have any true empathy for you then its fine.

    Then there is a second detail, if your emotions hurt, if you are more attached to him than him to you, cut the phisical intimacy inmediatly so your hormones calm down, return to just friendship. If you cannot handle a casual relationship don't do it.