Girl keeps saying "are we just friends?" Or "We're just friends, right" . . . should I just move on?

[Anonymous]

She keeps giving me signs she's interested ... but then every once in a while busts out with "We're friends right?"

Every time we talk I'm hitting on her, flirting with her hard, and talking about sex and other stuff, she's always laughing and hitting me, telling me how funny I am, how smart I am, stuff like that.

I'll say some random sh*t like "You're losing points" or something like that and she'll say "Friends don't keep points like that"

So . . . move on or keep going - she keeps trying to make other dates and wants to hang, I don't pay for the dates, we pretty much split everything, she'll pay, I'll pay etc.

Again she'll give like I said; compliment me on being smart funny good looking etc, try to validate herself to me, telling me that she's got guys that throw themselves at her but she's selective on who she hangs out with - but then every once in a while hit me with the f***ing friends sh*t... is she testing me or is this one trying to tell my ass I'm in the friend zone for sure . . .

I don't want to be her friend so should I just tell her, hey, I don't want to be your friend?

[backagainagain]

She is giving you all the signs that she is not interested in you other than friends. You are grasping at straws.

Females give compliments to their friends male or female this does not mean she wants anything more from you.

You are firmly in the friend zone. He she has been honest about that and treated you like just a friend. You are just hoping for more so you are trying to say she is acting like she likes you as more but she does not.

Sorry I don't want to burst your bubble but this is what is happening. I don't know why guys always do this to themselves when the girl has done nothing to suggest she likes him.

[kia58]

She's feeding her ego with your attention, therefore wants to keep you around regardless of never intending on reciprocating your feelings. And trust me, she knows you like her.

Just tell her you don't want to be her friend.

If you have any chance with her at all, the only way she'll ever express interest, is the moment you show a spine, and put a stop to her selfish behavior.

[Anonymous]

1. You're definitely not in the friend zone. Flirting with her and acting like you are doesn't put you in the friend zone.

2. I'd bet a hefty sum of money she's testing you to see if you're willing to take it to the next level. She's into you for sure.

3. Ask her out. On a legitimate date. Plan everything and don't let her pay.

[Opinion Owner]

I just read the other answerers comments and have to urge you to trust me on this...she's into you but isn't sure where you stand. Go for it.

[WizeGuy2350]

You're dead in the water with this one. Anytime a woman uses the word "friend" as much as she has used it on you, it's the kiss of death. If you need to be convinced, try giving her a kiss (not on the cheek) after your next "date." If she pulls away or turns her head, you're in her "friend zone."

[JohnBelluci]

- I'll say some random sh*t like "You're losing points" or something like that and she'll say "Friends don't keep points like that" -

---> You should have said : "Friends ? FRIENDS ? ... OK you just lost ALL your points. Bye. "

[blackkid2]

She's asking you. It's a direct question wrapped in Idiot Bacon. "Are we friends?" -> "We are more than friends as of now!" is your answer. You win. Even if that is the wrong answer you win.