Let me tell you something: PEOPLE ALWAYS JUDGE YOU. They might not show that they do, but they always do. You'll just have to accept that and stop caring, because if you care about what other people's opinions about you, you're going to jump off a cliff. What matters is how they behave towards you. Because girl, even your "friends" will judge you, they just accept you and like you.
I was in your position once, where it seems like everybody is really driving me nuts. Then I stopped caring about other people's opinions and snarky comments. I'll just think, "What the hell does he/she know? Pah, she/he's not worth my precious time and emotions. People like them probably are totally insecure themselves, so they're just trying to make themselves feel better by putting other people down. What a loser." It definitely went uphill from there. There might still be some things that push my buttons, but it's not all the time. I learned to care less and just be myself without caring about other people's opinions, because I realized that that's what everyone is doing anyway. Which was why you see lots of jerks and bitches: they are just being themselves and not care what others think of them.
Just don't become a bitch yourself.
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Don't worry, girls will always be that way. I was never one to be friends with girls anyways, so I subsided hanging with guys. What I've learned from my guy friends is that they are mostly just looking for a good time. If you come off as a nice girl, its basically the first couple of conversations that determine how they will feel about you and treat you. It also comes down to just the way you come off to people, if you come off a certain way to guys, they can lose interest, respect, and any type of potential for relationships. How do you generally act when you do go out, or when you talk to any of the people you talk to. If you come off saying how you want people to like you for you and all these stuff about yourself, it is a turn off, and guys generally don't want to talk to someone that complains a lot. Maybe a reason why they pick on your weight is because they see you as an easy target, if you are making yourself already vulnerable, but they are just already turned off.
Girls? Girls hate each other. So that's just natural, that other girls will pick on you.
Guys? Guys are taught by players or brutal experience that picking on girls and teasing/mocking/being an a**hole sometimes is good game, and that if you're flat out kind and nice to a girl, about 98% chance she will friend zone you.
And third, who cares "who you are inside"? Does it really matter, to anyone aside from your family or friends who grow to truly like you? Not really. Life's short. People stereotype based on appearances and actions, it's a lot faster and usually works pretty well. It's like how, if you're a fatty, people will assume you're a slob, and if you're drop-dead gorgeous, people will assume you're bitchy. Why? It's backed up by good odds it's true.
There you go.
One thing I have learnt in my life, is that people are ****s. The majority of them you cannot trust fully and cannot rely on, but every now and then, you find a few people who are worth your time and you can let in.
People will always judge you unfairly, as they did to me. But know that people come and go. None of these jerks and bitches will stay in your life, do not give them any reaction from what they do, as that's what they want.
If your happy how you are, then they don't mean sh*t. Be yourself and keep fighting this struggle which is life. I'm not gonna lie, you will have a lot of downs, but when the good times come, you'd be glad that you kept going.
There are people out there who would like you for how you are.
-M.
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Don't worry about others, just be happy with yourself. You can't stop people from thinking negatively towards you as its their choice. It sounds like you have a serious case of bullying going on is it at school? You need to speak to someone about it incase it gets worse.
why not pump piss inside of you? with like a turkey baster
lol!!! Do I know you, MS. Pink? xx
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