Ok babe, get a grip.
He's a nice guy. period. you assume that he doesn't like you but what is your proof. You then start saying 'brother' pushing him away from hugging you, etc but he still remains nice. Has it ever occurred to you to be honest with him. You don't need to say you like him upfront but reciprocate his actions. Don't bury them as if you develop a 'reaction formation.' ( Acting differently to how you really feel)...it won't get you anywhere. There are two things which could have happened between him and that girl whom you're jealous of and think/believe she likes him...
1. He may have liked you and may still do, but you've been rejecting him. So, that's his cue to get to know someone else. If you decide to be honest, he will respond to you in his true colors.
2. He knows she likes him and as he knows, he has to get to know her better. That is, if he wanted to take things further.
It's UP TO YOU, hun to stop faking and being real. Say nice things to him, make him feel special, be there for him as a support when he's playing a ball game or whatever hobby he's into. Be nice, be honest. Don't hide. Love is about taking a risk. If someone won't take it, then, they've missed out on an opportunity of love...that's just how life is...
Please best answer me.
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Why would you think there has to be sexual attraction for him to care about you? I mean, he clearly cares about you because you are his friend.
And how do you know he doesn't find you sexually attractive despite him being with another girl? You don't clarify these things in your description.
I think you are mixing romantic interest with just attraction I think.
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