This isn't something you can stop. You just have to wait the relationship out because it obviously won't last if he has any sense. She is paranoid and controlling and childish to be doing all these things. I was in a similar situation only she wasn't as bold as this girl seems to be. I talked to her about it, and it never helped anything. Finally, I got tired of it and broke off my friendship with my guy friend and told him the reason and that I'd be there when he could finally open his eyes and see that she was a real issue in his life. After they broke up a few months later, she apparently wanted to "fight" me because I was the first person he contacted afterward and we picked up like nothing ever happened, which only made her believe that something was going on ALL along. You can't combat crazy, and she is crazy lol
My suggestion is to block her and her friends from social networks, make your name on Facebook unsearchable so she can't create fake pages to harass you. Stop responding to any attempts on her part to ruffle your feathers, because with people like her, a response is all they are after. It kills them inside to be ignored.
If you'd really like to make her accountable for her actions without getting violent (I'd want to kick her ass but that's not the way to go lol), do it the legal way. Though it may sound a bit extreme, she won't stop if everyone keeps letting her act like a child. This is text book harassment. If you want to get her arrested, or ruin her record, don't do any of the above. Let it all continue, feed into it, play up the victim role, but begin to record all of this behavior. Phone calls, text messages, Facebook posts/messages/comments, write down word for word what she says to you face to face along with the date and time and any witnesses to her words, everything big or small. When you gather up enough, take it to the police station and file a report. She may even have to pay a fine. When you make it so she has to face and consequences, she'll straighten up a bit more.
If you want to go another route, you could always speed up the breakup process for them. I'll admit, it's a bit immature but if it gets to a point where you can't take it anymore and you feel like stooping to that level (it's not THAT low lol), start introducing him to nice girls who are his type. Take him places where he'll meet new girls, suggest outings for him and his friends where girls he would like hang out. He is most likely putting up with her behavior because he doesn't have anyone else and doesn't know how a healthy relationship is supposed to feel. Help him out.
I hope at least one of these options offers a solution for you and I wish you the best of luck!
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You asked about this question a week ago as if you were the girlfriend,so what is it? And it sounds to me if you are just a friend of this girls boyfriend you are acting more concerned about it then you should.which in my opinion either your jealous or you want him and your jealous.i don't think she's doing everything your saying,you just want peoples pity over you not getting your way.seriously if your guy friend wanted to really savage your friendship he would have dumped her by now but he's not going to,so get over it.and find a new guy friend.seriously its his life and your just a friend.
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Guy's point of view here. Stay away from drama. Men don't like drama for a reason. I don't really know what this dude sees in her, but if he's willing to stay with her against your warning, then just cut him out too and move on with your life. Life would be so much easier if you just didn't care as much about those who don't care about you.
Yeah I agreed that you can't stop her . The words of others is beyond our control, your guy friend has high tolerance level I guess. If you have the courage tell her off right in the face and be firm with it. Stare hard into her eyes when you do so. She probably Continue trash you because you kept quiet. Some people need to be scolded if not they won't stop
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