I'm a 22 year old woman who prefers my guy friends over my girlfriends sometimes (guys seem to have better conversations, more laughs, not petty, gossipy..just more fun overall) and have had many best guy friends in my lifetime. However, it seems that all of them tend to develop feelings towards me over time and its never mutual (I just want to be friends).
Then, once they eventually get gf, I either hear that the girlfriend is jealous and does not want their boyfriend (my close guy friends) around me, they stop hanging out with me, or just as recently as yesterday, decide to end our friendship all together (one I was friends with for over a decade) and gives NO explanation.
It makes me feel as though I'm a terrible person, that I've done something wrong. It's just not fair. What do you guys think are their true reasons in NOT wanting to even be my friend after getting a gf? Was it because all they wanted from me was a relationship, the girlfriend is controlling..they think I'm horrible now..I NEED ANSWERS. thank you thank you!
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