My boyfriend's brother and a friend roommates with him at his house. I am good friends with his brother who is gay, but I don't know his other roommate well. Yesterday, my boyfriend left my house to pick up his brother from the house to take him to work. I had spoke with his brother earlier, so I guess that is the reason why his brother accidentally calls me back unknowingly.
I stay on the phone so I can hear if they are going to talk about me and I don't wait long. I hear my boyfriend in the car with his brother and roommate telling them what we did and what happened between us the previous night. His brother asks him questions and talks about me cooking a dinner for my boyfriend that he (his brother) had cooked weeks ago and jokes about it. I am p*ssed because I thought his brother was my friend, and he talks about me behind my back. My boyfriend laughs at what he says. The roommate also shares an intimate detail he went through also, and this goes on for about 10 minutes until I get angry and hang up the phone.
I call right back, and my boyfriend answers. I tell him what I heard and that we were over. I don't share intimate details of what we do to anyone and I told him this. I didn't give him a chance to respond I just hung up the phone. His brother calls me about an hour later telling me that he said good things about me and blah blah.
My boyfriend's cousin, who is my best friend, told me that he called her crying and telling her how much he loves me and he shouldn't have said those things. I want to reach out to him so bad but my pride wouldn't let me. I felt like a piece of crap when I heard him telling them those things. And if we do get together again, I would be afraid that he would kiss and tell again. I haven't talked to him for a full 24 hours, and that has never happened before. I couldn't go to work today, I've been in bed all day and my heart is hurting. Most of my relationships haven't worked out and I'm afraid that this has become one of them.
What should I do? Please help!
I stay on the phone so I can hear if they are going to talk about me and I don't wait long. I hear my boyfriend in the car with his brother and roommate telling them what we did and what happened between us the previous night. His brother asks him questions and talks about me cooking a dinner for my boyfriend that he (his brother) had cooked weeks ago and jokes about it. I am p*ssed because I thought his brother was my friend, and he talks about me behind my back. My boyfriend laughs at what he says. The roommate also shares an intimate detail he went through also, and this goes on for about 10 minutes until I get angry and hang up the phone.
I call right back, and my boyfriend answers. I tell him what I heard and that we were over. I don't share intimate details of what we do to anyone and I told him this. I didn't give him a chance to respond I just hung up the phone. His brother calls me about an hour later telling me that he said good things about me and blah blah.
My boyfriend's cousin, who is my best friend, told me that he called her crying and telling her how much he loves me and he shouldn't have said those things. I want to reach out to him so bad but my pride wouldn't let me. I felt like a piece of crap when I heard him telling them those things. And if we do get together again, I would be afraid that he would kiss and tell again. I haven't talked to him for a full 24 hours, and that has never happened before. I couldn't go to work today, I've been in bed all day and my heart is hurting. Most of my relationships haven't worked out and I'm afraid that this has become one of them.
What should I do? Please help!
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