Why Everyone Stands a Chance With "8/10" People

Anonymous

I've seen some very weird takes focusing on 8/10+ people in terms of looks/attraction.

I'm not going to make this long, in fact very short;

1. Reason why average/ugly men "often" fail to cuff them

Most men approach these girls as if they're aliens, as if they're something more than just humans. I can tell you being adored is cool, but to the point where you're being massaged and praised all the time is just straight up tiresome and really makes you weird and desperate. Like your whole mood and personality is affected by this moodboard that is the girl in question.

Instead....

be yourself, if you're going for the big shot, don't try to impress them by showering them with roses. Your job is not to make them look like a Greece Goddess, your "job"/goal is to introduce YOURSELF, show them why you are worth their time and hanging out with. Crack a few jokes, make few remarks about her (this can be a compliment as long as you don't overdo it, this could be a joke show her you are not afraid to challenge her), introduce yourself and let her do the talking.

Also remember; ugly people are rarely seen, I bet in your whole lifetime you've seen max 20 really ugly people.

Why Everyone Stands a Chance With "8/10" People

2. Confidence is easily gained and FAKED

"But...but..the bad guy is so confident...."

Confidence is easily gained people. Get a haircut, get your closet fixed, go outside with a smile and don't expect the world to return anything. You're out there for yourself. No one else but yourself.

You have nothing to prove to the girl on the corner, your best friend, your neighbor.... Just you, you are living this life for yourself. That is confidence and this radiates, people notice this and feel this.

You can fake it too but...

be careful. Once you're tested people see through this facade so make sure when you talk the talk, you can walk the walk.

Why Everyone Stands a Chance With "8/10" People

3. Finally, would girls date someone "less attractive"?

Yes of course, why wouldn't they?

Beauty is objective, hence why models exist.

ATTRACTION IS SUBJECTIVE. It's your taste, it's what you think is pleasing to your eyes... I can tell you my taste differs a lot from others and I'm fine with that, its a personal thing. Some like those Swedish blonde girls, others like those Hollywood bombshells...

So yes, even girls have personal tastes...

Attraction is presence+personality

So when you finally start being yourself and you manage to take her on a date, just be normal. Don't force it, if it clicks it clicks. Simple.

Just make sure both of you are comfortable talking and being who you are.

Why Everyone Stands a Chance With "8/10" People

So instead of spraying this fake "average people don't have a chance" propaganda, and trying to fit certain people in this sitcom stereotype box, know real life situations are much more complex, especially love, lust, and attraction.

Why Everyone Stands a Chance With "8/10" People
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